Sunday, July 11, 2021

Sheri Hamel Greene, May 15, 1971 - June 30, 2021

 

Sheri Hamel Greene Hess, passed unexpectedly at her home in Davenport, Florida, on June 30, 2021.  Born May 15th, 1971, in Claremont, New Hampshire, to veteran and retired firefighter John Hamel and devoted mother Patricia Baker [Ruest], Sheri was the younger to her sister Becky Herrington.  

Sheri graduated from Stevens High School in Claremont, New Hampshire, and went on to achieve her business degree from Ashworth University in Norcross, Georgia.  Sheri would acquire several professional achievements over her thirty-year medical, music and retail career, including the CPSP and CMRS medical credentials, but the accomplishments she was most proud of were those of her son Tyler.

Tyler was Sheri’s life’s work and greatest achievement.  Born in Claremont, New Hampshire, as well, Tyler fell ill early on with quadriplegia due to a spinal malady and soon became dependent upon a ventilator.  Sheri quickly became skilled in every aspect of the illness, treatments, and diagnosis at such a level of expertise that she was called upon to train the medical staffs charged with Tyler’s care.  Sheri and Tyler’s advocacy work toward the early diagnosis, treatment and long-term care requirements of quadriplegia was acknowledged by Governor John Lynch in a press conference on the front steps of their Claremont home.  Their advocacy work would capture the attention of actor Christopher Reeve and wife Dana.  They quickly built a friendship, and upon his passing, Christopher’s van was given to Tyler.  Sheri would serve as Tyler’s caregiver for twenty-years after he was first diagnosed, through his formative years, through high school and college, and until his passing at the age of twenty-three.  

Sheri would be diagnosed with stage-four cancer, given a ten-percent chance to survive it, undergo chemotherapy and radiotherapy—and beat it.  She was a twenty-year survivor and advocate.

Sheri would be critically injured in a traffic accident, undergo countless reconstructive surgeries rebuilding essentially the entire left-side of her—and beat it.  

After a lifetime of style, trend and fashion-forward experiences bringing her unique eye and flavor to other’s venues—fashion, music, retail—Sheri finally took the leap to start her own business.  Sheri’s successful Bubbles & Bling subscription box openings have been viewed by tens of thousands of social media fans, have sold out every run, and have amassed a waitlist several months long.  She consulted other vendors in the lifestyle space, lending her experiences to colleagues and competitors alike, and has helped several more get started from scratch.    

She is survived by her husband Mark Hess, her father John Hamel and stepmother Debra Hamel [Lamery] of Claremont, New Hampshire, her mother Patricia Baker [Ruest] and stepfather Robert Baker of Davenport, Florida, and sister Becky Herrington and brother-in-law John Herrington of Manchester, Vermont.  She is also survived by her uncle Richard Ruest and his wife Jacqui of Ludlow, Massachusetts, her aunt Shirley McNutt of Ascutney, Vermont, niece Brandy Fortin, and cousins John Prouty, Tony Ruest and Andrea Ruest.  As well, by her extended family Ellis and Stacey Hess of Elizabethtown, Kentucky, and Gary Hess and Sarah Gibson of Sacramento, California.

Sheri’s graveside service and burial will be held at the Union Cemetery in Claremont, New Hampshire, on Thursday, July 15th, at 1:00PM.  Floral and memorial arrangements can be made with the Stringer Funeral Home, 146 Broad Street, Claremont, New Hampshire, and with our friends at the Petal Patch, 2 Main Street, Newport, New Hampshire. 

Monday, June 28, 2021











 

 Dear Tyler,

Hi my sweet son! How are you doing on this Monday afternoon? It is actually 4:48 pm. Mom is just getting to write to you now. It is going to be a very short letter today as I have to feed the pups and walk them in like 12 minutes and also get dinner going for us as well. 

Today just flew by. I was up at the usual time and fed the pups, walked them and then I came right upstairs and chatted with Meme for a bit, started laundry and then came into my office to put a few boxes together. After that was done I took a shower, grabbed something to eat for Mark and I and then I started with emails and calls. Mom paid all the bills for the 1st of July...all 29 of them...ugh. That took a little while for sure. Mom is also listening to webinars so that I can get all my CEUs for my CMRS. I have listened to 7 today and I will be doing the same tomorrow as I have to submit them all by Thursday and Mom is out for 3 hours on Wednesday for a hair appointment. It is very nice that they are allowing me to do this when my membership expired 3 months ago. I am doing this all so quickly in good graces. I will do it and won't have to worry about it for another 8 months...lol! 

Yesterday we had our friends over. It was so much fun, Tyler. They are good people. Wayne and Ann are their names. We talked about everything and we laughed so hard. We played games in the pool, out of the pool and then ate tons of food! They got here at 1:45 pm and left at 8:45 pm. Mom and Mark cleaned up and we went upstairs and crashed hard. Mark was asleep in 30 minutes. Mom fell asleep after a bit but I was up a lot during the night. Didn't sleep a whole lot and I was surprised at that. Hopefully tonight I will sleep better. We stayed off social media all day long and night. It was so nice! We didn't skype with Grandpa or Tubal and Karen at all. It was just wonderful to do things that we wanted in our own time frame. That never happens. Meme and Bob visited with us for a little bit but then Bob was told to go upstairs and be with her and the dog. I thought that was rude. Meme was just being herself but I wished she would have been nicer....ugh...really makes Mom mad.

Tonight will be all about having dinner and then calling it an early evening. Mom will watch tv and then go to bed at a decent time. It will be a busy day tomorrow again so I need the sleep. Come visit me tonight in my dreams if you can. Have fun while I sleep. I will be back tomorrow with another letter to you. I will light the candle this evening and whisper to you before I fall asleep. Smile for me and I will smile for you. Mom is going to try and be mellow this week as this is the week I dread...Sunday is July 4th and it will be a mad house in this place. Partying all night and day and fireworks constantly. A family came in this morning and had a huge trailer attached to their SUV and it is all fireworks...Lord help us... we are going to need it. 

It is after 5 pm now. Mom needs to get going. I miss you so much and I love you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live inside my heart, mind, body and soul. Until tomorrow comes...good night and sweet dreams my sweet precious son. 

Always, Mommy xoxoxo. Muah 💛

Sunday, June 27, 2021









 

 Dear Tyler,

Hi my sweet son! How are you doing on this Sunday morning? It is 11:17 am and Mom is writing to you now as we have friends coming over for pool time and a BBQ at 1 pm. Mom needs to write this letter to you and then get downstairs to do the rest of the prep work. Mark and Mom did some this morning already. Mark tended to the pool. He skimmed it, vacuumed it while Mom was cleaning all the chairs and wicker furniture off. we managed to get everything finished and also Mom vacuumed all upstairs, made the bed, did the trash and took my shower. Pretty good timing if I don't say so myself! The sun is finally shining right now and there is no rain is sight so that is amazing. The pool water was 77 degrees so we turned the heat on for a bit. It will be 85 today. Mom is looking forward to having Wayne and his wife here. You know how I love to host gatherings and this will be the first one in over 4 years!  I will tell you about it on tomorrows letter to you!

Mom is sorry that I didn't write the last couple of days. Friday was a busy day doing all kinds of things at the house that needed to get done. Mom was not feeling all that great either so I took my time and just did everything I needed to do. Friday night was quiet here. Meme and Bob went to bed early as usual and Mark and Mom stayed up as it thunderstormed until midnight. The pups were so scared. Saturday, Mark and I were up early. We went and ran so many errands. We left at 9:30 am and got home at 1:45 pm. We hit the post office, Walmart, a couple gift shops and then the grocery store. We just had gotten outside and the sky opened up and started raining hard... we laughed! Anyways...we got home, put everything away, had lunch and the Dave went to Grandpa's house to help him with his computer. We were trying to help from this end as well. Finished that up at 4:30 pm. Mark did a bit of work and then we fed the pups, walked them and made dinner. It rained again last night. We stayed downstairs until 10 pm and then ventured upstairs. Mom went right to bed. Yesterday was a sad day for me. It was June 26th. Tough day in many ways. This was the day we laid you to rest 8 years ago. It is also the day 33 years ago that Grandpa, Audrey and Mom got into our car accident. Both of these memories will haunt me for the rest of my life. I wasn't really on social media much at all yesterday and that is the way I wanted it. I did get some other news as well yesterday morning. Chris Amos... you remember Mom's friend, he hasn't spoken to me in over a year. He messaged me this... Hi...Thought you might like to know, I have prostate cancer. That was the entire message. I did get in touch with him. Asked him a couple questions and he was vague with his answers. Mom feels terrible that he was diagnosed with this and I wish him the best in recovery. I hope that they found it quickly. What I was upset about was that not once in the last year when things were great, did he try and reach out to me at all. Just now. He never asked how I was doing either. Friendship is not a one-way street. It is give and take about one another. This friendship was not. It was always about him and only him. Mom just can't deal with that, Tyler. I just can't anymore. Too much drama. He always made me out to be the bad person and I wasn't. I don't think we will chat much anymore but we will see. Mom will definitely not be making an effort that is for sure as I know he won't either. Anyways... last night we were suppose to skype with Grandpa but he called me and apparently Debbie is still angry at the world about the other night so he told me not to call and make things worse. Mom was upset but said nothing at all. Not sure what is going on with them but Mom doesn't think it is good news. I will call him tonight to say hello and see how things are. 

Not much else to update you on. I know I missed a pretty painting in the sky last night. I caught the very end of it and I was so upset. I am hoping there will be one this evening so I can take pictures of it. Mom will write to you tomorrow afternoon. I will light a candle later this evening for you and I will whisper to you as I always do. Smile to Mom and I will smile to you my sweet precious son. I miss you so dang much. I love you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live in my heart, mind, body and soul. Please watch over us and keep us safe and healthy. Thank you. Have fun tonight and come visit Mom in my dreams if you can. Until tomorrow comes....good night and sweet dreams later tonight. Mom is off to go finish everything that needs to be done. 

Always, Mommy xoxoxo. Muah 💜

Thursday, June 24, 2021









 

 Dear Tyler,

Hi pumpkin! How are you doing on this Thursday afternoon? It is 2:50 pm and it feels like 10 pm to Mom. It was another night with very little sleep. Princess was up at 3 am and I cleaned up after her...by the time I was finished, I was wide awake and couldn't fall back to sleep. I finally did though at 4:30 am and up again at 6:30 am. Mom is really hoping that tonight will be a night that I can get a lot of sleep. Hopefully the renters next door will not be loud and we can go to bed early.

Mark left for the office today at 10 am. Mom was rearranging things in her office, then cleaned Mark's office up... I finished at 11 am. I took a shower, grabbed something to eat and then I chatted on the phone to Auntie Kristina and Bonnie. Now Mom is looking at emails and getting things done that she needs to do. Tomorrow is Friday and I will be going to the grocery store to finish the shopping and then I will be home doing laundry and cleaning for Sunday. Not much else. I am hoping the weather holds out though for Sunday! 

Last night, Mom and Mark chatted on the phone with our friends Dave, Brian & Jocsan. We came upstairs after that and played some more golf. Mark was pretty tired as he was falling asleep during golf so we called it a night. He went to bed as Mom stayed up. Mom also spoke to Grandpa a couple times too. Second time I don't know what happened but Debbie got mad again and stormed out of the house. That is like the 4th time she has done that in less than 18 months. Not sure what is going on at times with her but Grandpa don't need that kind of crap. I was going to touch base with them this evening but I am going to hold off until tomorrow instead. Whatever is going on there...the dust needs to settle. 

This morning I believe in Miami, there was a 136 apartment building that collapsed right to the ground. Many people are trapped and injured. 1 was found dead and several others are needing to be rescued....men, women, children, animals. I haven't watched the news yet but I am sure I will see it later this evening when Mark watches the news. The whole thing is so sad. Mom is praying for everyone of them and their families and pets. May they all still be alive and make a full recovery from this tragic event. I will keep you posted on this tomorrow when there is more to tell. 

I think tonight will be dinner and relaxing...no golf or games...maybe tv and bed. Mom is very tired tonight. I will light the candle for you and whisper to you as I always do each night. Smile for me and I will smile to you my sweet precious son. I know this is a short letter today but Mom is going to sit back and maybe snooze for 30 minutes or so as I am having a hard time keeping my eyes open. I may need that break to have the energy to feed the pups and walk them and then make dinner this evening for us. This happens when it makes 3 nights in a row that not much sleep has been had. I will be back tomorrow with another letter to you. Have fun while I sleep tonight and come visit me in my dreams if you can. Thank you. Please continue to watch over us all here. Keep us safe and healthy. Thank you. It means so much to Mom. I love you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live inside my heart, mind, body and soul. Until tomorrow comes...good night and sweet dreams. I miss you more than anything...more than words can say.

Always, Mommy xoxoxo. Muah 💖