Wednesday, January 22, 2020

Dear Tyler,

Hi my sweet son! How are you doing on this Wednesday afternoon? Mom is doing well today. It is already 12:16 pm and I have been up since 6 am. The pups decided that they were hungry and they wanted to get up. Mom was able to keep them settled down until 6:45 am but that was it...lol. Being up so early I was able to do a few things around the house before getting ready. Mom mopped the floors downstairs and then vacuumed them, gathered all the trash and then did a few quick things upstairs before it was time to shower and get ready. Mar was taking an exam so I was trying to stay quiet so that the pups would as well. That didn't really happen though. Mark failed the exam and missed passing by 2 questions. He has 1 more shot at it this afternoon so he is going to take it after Meme and Mom leave in about an hour. I sure hope he passes the exam this time. My fingers will be crossed for him!
 Mom and Meme are going to get our hair done. Meme is getting hers cut short and Mom is going to get some highlights done. Pretty soon I will be able to get a different style. I need to let my hair grow out some though. I wasn't nervous about going today at all up until about an hour ago. It is my first time meeting this gal who will be doing it so I don't know what to expect. I am sure it will be just fine though. the atmosphere in the place is awesome and just my style. Guess we shall see about it. Mom will be home around 5 pm so no turning back now!
 Last night was going to be a relaxing evening but Mom ended up being on the phone for the most part. Mark and Mom just started to watch a TV show that was taped and the phone rang. It was a telemarketer so that was quick. 5 minutes later the phone rang again and it was Grandpa. He sounded okay last night. He was telling me that he went out and did a few things yesterday to get out of the house and when he returned home the phone was ringing. He noticed that it was Debbie. He wasn't going to pick it up but he did. He said "Hello Debbie, How are you doing?" She responded with that she was doing okay and asked how Grandpa was. He said he was okay as well. He said that he pretty much knew why she was calling.... to set up a time to get the rest of her things and about papers. She told Grandpa that she didn't have the money so he said her would help then. His heart must have sunk. After that she responded with "I don't have the money, I don't want one and I want to come home." Grandpa was shocked and he told her to come home where she belonged...with him. Mom started crying so bad that I couldn't even talk. I had to hand the phone over to Mark. I was so happy for Grandpa. He was tickled pink to hear Debbie say that. She will be going back home tomorrow (Thursday) and Grandpa can't wait. I guess he is setting up a nice dinner, flowers, etc... for her. That will be sweet. Mom and Mark are happy for them both. I sure hope that this time they will work on the things that need fixing and that this will not happen again. I told Grandpa that now we need to set up a date for them to come here and visit. I am still shooting for April during Easter. If Mom is being honest it is bittersweet again... for the second time now. Mom knows that they will not be moving here. It is something that I have to deal with again. Even though I am so happy for them both... it does break Mom's heart but I will never tell him or show it. Grandpa will be calling Mom tonight and then I probably won't hear from him until maybe Sunday. I hope things change for them both and it becomes better and I hope things will get better for Debbie and I. If not that will hurt Mom a lot because I will not see Grandpa very much at all. One day at a time is all we can do. Grandpa did say that his prayers were answered by God and the Angels. when he said that I smiled and said "Thank you, Tyler". I know Grammy had something to do with it as well. 
 The weather yesterday was so cold here. It was 52 degrees during the day and 35 last night. We did get a frost. A lady was saying yesterday that it hasn't been this cold in over 5 years. Today the weather is still chilly but it is 60 degrees and tonight it will be 40 degrees. Tomorrow though it all changed again and it will be back to 74 degrees. Mom has found it to be nice regardless because I know what is coming in the next couple months....90-100 degrees every day and hot and muggy. Our saving grace is that we have central air in the house and the pool in the back yard! 
 Tonight, Mom will be getting home later so it will be feeding the pups and then dinner for Mark and Mom. He has his new desk showing up tomorrow so that means tonight we will be rearranging his office so that it will be ready for when the desk arrives. After that it will be a walk with the pups and then relaxing before bed. I sure hope you get to do all that you want to tonight. Come visit Mom in my dreams if you can. Mom will be back tomorrow with another letter to you in the afternoon. For now though, Mom has to get going because it is 12:47 pm and I need to finish up being heading out the door in 30 minutes. Making sure I wrote to you was something that I needed to get done and I accomplished that so I am very happy! I love you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live inside my heart, mind, body and soul. I miss you so much pumpkin. More than words. Until tomorrow comes...Mom will light your candle later and whisper to you tonight. Smile for me and I will smile for you. I miss you my sweet precious son. Please watch over us and continue to guide the way for Mom. Thank you.
 Always, Mommy xoxoxo. Muah!

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