Dear Tyler,

Hi my sweet son. How are you doing on this Saturday evening? Mom is really sorry about not writing to you yesterday but it started out good and every hour it got worse and worse. Let Mom explain..... Meme and I got up early to go to an opening of a new store. We left at 9 am. Mom was driving and almost to the store when she received a phone call. I could tell that it was not going to be a good call so when I parked the car, I got out and gave her the privacy that I thought she was needing. The store wasn't open yet so I waited outside and as the store opened, Meme joined me. She was really upset and almost in tears. I asked her what was wrong and she started rattling off things and Mom didn't understand. We shopped a little bit and then into another couple stores. She mentioned that the phone call ruined her day and apologized to me. We left around 1 pm and headed home after stopping at the post office to get our mail. We unpacked the car and settled inside and had lunch. Every one went their separate ways afterwards. Mark went back to work, Bob went outside and Meme went upstairs. Mom hung downstairs for a little bit when I received a text message from Debbie. What I read was shocking. She told Mom that she was leaving Grandpa and she was going to live with her sister. We wished us the best and said she would be filing for divorce. I jumped right on the phone to call her, no answer, I called Grandpa and no answer there. Mom was freaking out. Finally about 30 minutes later, Grandpa called me. We talked for about an hour and then got off the phone. He told Mom that things have been bruining for some time now. There were nasty words exchanged between Debbie to Grandpa and she just left. She told Grandpa that they were done, she didn't want to see him again and she was going to file for a divorce. She is hurt, angry, and upset about the whole thing just like Grandpa is. She is with her family and Grandpa is all alone 24/7. Mom is so worried about him. I called him last night and we talked for 2 hours. He called today to and he said he would call me later this evening as well. Mom teaches out to Debbie to see how she was. She spoke very little. She said that it was all her fault and she was worthless. There are a lot of things that are going on and a lot of things that need to be talked about but right now she is not willing to. I told her to make sure she knew what she was doing before she made decisions that she will regret later. She told Mom she didn't want to talk about it anymore. I dropped it and we haven't spoken since this morning. Mom is crushed and heartbroken for both of them. Mom asked Grandpa to come down here and he said he needed to think about a lot of things. I won't push the issue at all. Not right now but Mom is so sad that he is constantly a lone now and no one to do anything with. Tyler, please watch over Grandpa for Mom. I didn't sleep last night because I was so upset. I need to know he will be okay. Aunt Shirley said that she would watch out for him and call regularly. I hope so. Mark and Mom are planning a trip up there providing the weather is good. Please please please take care of Grandpa for Mom. Thank you so much my sweet precious son. I hope that in time things can work out between them. I know they love each other. That has to count for something. 
 Today was a crappy day again. We went out and did a few things and then came home. We sat by the pool, took the pups for a long walk and then had dinner. Now, every one is watching a Harry Potter movie while I write to you. I guess I am just not into anything right  now. My mind is worrying and wondering about Grandpa. Mom made herself sick over it yesterday. I didn't even eat dinner last night or tonight. I know that's not good but I will start again soon. I promise you I will. 
 One of Mom's friends is sick. She got in touch with me yesterday. One of Great Grammy's friends, Carol passed away last night. She lost her battle with cancer. She was a sweet woman. I hope that she R.I.P now for eternal life. Nothing good is happening lately. Meme and Bob are having issues with closing on their house too. Something has to give soon. Good things need to be happening for everyone. 2020 has not started off very well and it's only 18 days into the new year. Please watch over us all pumpkin. Thank you so much. Your candle is lit for you already. I will whisper to you later this evening. Have fun tonight while Mom tries to get some sleep. Come visit me in my dreams if you can. Thank you. Please know that I miss you so much. I wish that you were here so we could talk. I could use that right about now. Mom loves you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live inside my heart,mind,body and soul. Mom will be back tomorrow with another letter to you. Right now, I am going to join the rest while they watch the movie. Grandpa will be calling back soon too. Until tomorrow comes....good night and sweet dreams. 
 Always, Mommy xoxoxo 🖤