Wednesday, July 8, 2020

Dear Tyler,

Hi my sweet son! How are you doing on this Wednesday evening? Mom is doing alright. I am sorry that I did not right to you yesterday like I planned on doing after I got back home but honestly you saw just how much of a cluster bleep bleep bleep it was here. Mom was up the same time as usual and everyone was also awake. No one was talking to one another at all. Mom did things in the morning and then left at 12:15 pm to go get her nails done and then run errands after. I was home by 3 pm. Guess all hell broke loose while I was gone. Meme and Bob were gone as well. They found a place and went to get packing supplies. They said nothing to us at all. We went down to make dinner and Meme walked right by without saying anything and I finally spoke up and said" so you found a place, huh?" Meme told me about it and it sounded cute. Small place but big enough for them. They continued to pack and load things in her vehicle when I don't know what happened but both of them were wobbly and almost fell down the stairs. Mark decided that no one was moving out or anywhere. Mom was upset to say the least. For 6 days I had been ignored and no one spoke to me. Every one blamed me for everything. We never ended up eating until 7:30 pm last night and then had a long talk with Meme and Bob. That lasted until 8:30 pm, I was exhausted so I went to the bedroom for the evening. I watched tv for about 1.5 hours and then fell right to sleep. Having them not move, there were stipulations put in place. If at any time they break them then they know they are out immediately. The stipulations are: I don't clean up after them. They are adults and they can start doing it for themselves, They are to put their dog in training to get along with ours (Ozzy is going in training too), if this does not work then they will have to move...no questions asked, They need to clean up their rooms and not make them look like they do now. They are not presentable and that needs to stop. I am tired of looking at them in those conditions, They give Mark and I a lot more privacy when we want it with no questions asked, and last but certainly not least..... they have no more free ride. They are to pay Mark every month to live here. If they miss a month for any reason...then they are told to leave immediately. I don't think that they liked the stipulations but I was firm and told them if they did not like them then they needed to continue marching forward with their move. I also said that I thought it was a good idea that they did move out because it would be best for all the pups and adults. Of course, no one listened to Mom. I was overruled. mark said that it would take us all to make this work. Mark asked Mom my thoughts and I told him the truth.... I said that they are not going to put the effort into it and they are going to loose the rental that they had. Today proved it on so many levels. Meme continued the crap with the pups....yelling and keeping them away from each other. She made all kinds of messes and didn't clean up after so Mom had to and lastly they had all day while we were busy to look up dog trainers and instead they played games, Meme knitted and Bob sat outside for awhile. Mom is going to keep cool and say nothing and just watch every continue the way it has been. It will crumble and they will be moving out within the next month... I guarantee it. Meme is set in her ways and will never change and they will not help Mark and Mom. I will bite my tongue just to see it all fail in front of Mark's eyes and then I can say I told you so. I will keep you updated on things though. I know you see everything and you know what Mom is talking about. Stay tuned, pumpkin!
 Yesterday morning Mom read something first thing when I logged into social media and I was heartbroken. A lady that I spoke to quite frequently and helped her many of times so that her pups could have food, food for herself and food for holiday meals with her family. Mom helped her with puppy pads and clothing for her pups and other items for her to live comfortably. I gave her a camera so she could take pictures as she did not have one. She would always tell me how special I was and how proud she was of me when I passed a test in school. She was kind and so sweet. She had been in the hospital 4 times in the month of June and just had gotten home. We just spoke and 2 days later she passed away. Just like that. So many were shocked. Mom was shocked. She definitely deserves her Angel Wings and Mom hopes that she is reunited with her sweet little pup Tina that passed a couple years ago. Ms. Joi Waterworth.... you fly high and free with the Angels now for eternal life. You are so missed by your family, friends and social media friends and followers. I miss you and will miss our chats. Send me a sign when you can. R.I.P. sweetie. Never goodbye!
 Mom misses you so much too. I love you to the moon and back and all the way around the world. You are my hero and the wind beneath my wings. Forever you live in my heart, mind, body and soul. I am sure without a doubt that you will see Ms. Joi and give her that wonderful smile that you would give us all and tell her who you are. Mom will light a candle for you tonight. I will whisper to you later this evening as well. Smile for me when you hear Mom and I will smile back to you. I will write to you tomorrow as well. I have no appointments and will have a bit more time then I do tonight. It is way after 5:30 pm and the pups have not been fed and we have not eaten either. The day has slipped right by. Please have fun tonight while I sleep. Come visit me if you can. Thank you my sweet precious son. Until tomorrow comes.... good night and sweet dreams later.
 Always, Mommy xoxoxo. Muah ❤

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